{"id":20292,"date":"2026-07-15T22:41:48","date_gmt":"2026-07-16T05:41:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lovehealscounselling.ca\/?p=20292"},"modified":"2026-07-15T22:41:50","modified_gmt":"2026-07-16T05:41:50","slug":"help-others-afraid-to-ask-for-help","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lovehealscounselling.ca\/zh-hant\/help-others-afraid-to-ask-for-help\/","title":{"rendered":"\u70ba\u4ec0\u9ebc\u6211\u9858\u610f\u5e6b\u52a9\u5225\u4eba\uff0c\u537b\u4e0d\u6562\u5411\u5225\u4eba\u6c42\u52a9\uff1f"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<!--\nSEO \/ Rank Math\nSEO title: \u70ba\u4ec0\u9ebc\u6211\u9858\u610f\u5e6b\u52a9\u5225\u4eba\uff0c\u537b\u4e0d\u6562\u5411\u5225\u4eba\u6c42\u52a9\uff1f\nMeta description: 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<p>\u4f46\u5c0f\u6642\u5019\uff0c\u6211\u5011\u4e5f\u6703\u5f9e\u5927\u4eba\u7684\u53cd\u61c9\u4e2d\u4e86\u89e3\u81ea\u5df1\u3002\u7576\u6211\u5011\u5b89\u975c\u3001\u61c2\u4e8b\u3001\u6210\u7e3e\u597d\u6216\u6703\u7167\u9867\u5f1f\u59b9\u6642\uff0c\u4e5f\u8a31\u6bd4\u8f03\u5bb9\u6613\u5f97\u5230\u7a31\u8b9a\uff1b\u7576\u6211\u5011\u96e3\u904e\u3001\u751f\u6c23\u3001\u6709\u4e0d\u540c\u610f\u898b\uff0c\u6216\u9700\u8981\u5927\u4eba\u5e6b\u5fd9\u6642\uff0c\u5f97\u5230\u7684\u537b\u53ef\u80fd\u662f\u300c\u4e0d\u8981\u60f3\u592a\u591a\u300d\u3001\u300c\u4e0d\u8981\u9ebb\u7169\u5225\u4eba\u300d\uff0c\u6216\u8005\u300c\u4f60\u61c9\u8a72\u61c2\u4e8b\u4e00\u9ede\u300d\u3002<\/p>\n  <p>\u4e45\u800c\u4e45\u4e4b\uff0c\u6211\u5011\u53ef\u80fd\u8a18\u4f4f\u4e00\u500b\u6c92\u6709\u88ab\u8aaa\u51fa\u53e3\u7684\u898f\u5247\uff1a<\/p>\n  <blockquote>\n  <p>\u7576\u6211\u8868\u73fe\u597d\u3001\u80fd\u5920\u5e6b\u4e0a\u5fd9\uff0c\u6211\u5c31\u662f\u4e00\u500b\u503c\u5f97\u559c\u6b61\u7684\u4eba\uff1b\u7576\u6211\u6709\u592a\u591a\u9700\u8981\uff0c\u6211\u53ef\u80fd\u6703\u6210\u70ba\u5225\u4eba\u7684\u8ca0\u64d4\u3002<\/p>\n  <\/blockquote>\n  <p>\u9019\u4e0d\u4e00\u5b9a\u8868\u793a\u7236\u6bcd\u4e0d\u611b\u5b69\u5b50\u3002\u5f88\u591a\u7236\u6bcd\u4e5f\u5728\u8f9b\u82e6\u7684\u74b0\u5883\u4e2d\u9577\u5927\u3002\u79fb\u6c11\u3001\u5de5\u4f5c\u3001\u91d1\u9322\u3001\u5bb6\u5ead\u8cac\u4efb\u548c\u5c0d\u672a\u4f86\u7684\u64d4\u5fc3\uff0c\u90fd\u53ef\u80fd\u8b93\u300c\u61c2\u4e8b\u3001\u7368\u7acb\u3001\u4e0d\u8981\u9ebb\u7169\u5225\u4eba\u300d\u986f\u5f97\u683c\u5916\u91cd\u8981\u3002<\/p>\n  <p>\u6240\u4ee5\uff0c\u554f\u984c\u4e0d\u662f\u83ef\u4eba\u5bb6\u5ead\u91cd\u8996\u8cac\u4efb\uff0c\u4e5f\u4e0d\u662f\u7236\u6bcd\u4e0d\u80fd\u5c0d\u5b69\u5b50\u6709\u671f\u5f85\u3002\u66f4\u91cd\u8981\u7684\u662f\uff1a<strong>\u7576\u5b69\u5b50\u505a\u4e0d\u5230\u3001\u6709\u4e0d\u540c\u60f3\u6cd5\uff0c\u6216\u9700\u8981\u5e6b\u52a9\u6642\uff0c\u4ed6\u662f\u5426\u4ecd\u7136\u611f\u89ba\u81ea\u5df1\u88ab\u63a5\u7d0d\uff1f<\/strong><\/p>\n  <\/section>\n  <section id=\"\u70ba\u4ec0\u9ebc\u5e6b\u52a9\u5225\u4eba\u5bb9\u6613\u63a5\u53d7\u5e6b\u52a9\u537b\u9019\u9ebc\u96e3\" class=\"level2\">\n  <h2>\u70ba\u4ec0\u9ebc\u5e6b\u52a9\u5225\u4eba\u5bb9\u6613\uff0c\u63a5\u53d7\u5e6b\u52a9\u537b\u9019\u9ebc\u96e3\uff1f<\/h2>\n  <p>\u5e6b\u52a9\u5225\u4eba\u6642\uff0c\u6211\u5011\u662f\u6709\u80fd\u529b\u3001\u53ef\u9760\uff0c\u4e5f\u6bd4\u8f03\u80fd\u638c\u63e1\u60c5\u6cc1\u7684\u90a3\u500b\u4eba\u3002\u5411\u5225\u4eba\u6c42\u52a9\u537b\u4e0d\u4e00\u6a23\uff1a\u6211\u5011\u9700\u8981\u627f\u8a8d\u81ea\u5df1\u4e5f\u6709\u505a\u4e0d\u5230\u7684\u4e8b\uff0c\u8b93\u5225\u4eba\u770b\u898b\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u9700\u8981\uff0c\u4e26\u7b49\u5f85\u5c0d\u65b9\u662f\u5426\u9858\u610f\u56de\u61c9\u3002<\/p>\n  <p>\u9019\u500b\u7b49\u5f85\u53ef\u80fd\u4ee4\u4eba\u4e0d\u5b89\u3002\u8207\u5176\u5192\u96aa\u88ab\u62d2\u7d55\uff0c\u6709\u4e9b\u4eba\u5be7\u9858\u544a\u8a34\u81ea\u5df1\uff1a\u300c\u7b97\u4e86\uff0c\u6211\u81ea\u5df1\u4f86\u6bd4\u8f03\u5feb\u3002\u300d\u5373\u4f7f\u5225\u4eba\u4e3b\u52d5\u63d0\u51fa\u5e6b\u5fd9\uff0c\u6211\u5011\u4e5f\u53ef\u80fd\u7acb\u523b\u56de\u7b54\u300c\u4e0d\u7528\u4e86\u300d\uff0c\u6216\u8005\u958b\u59cb\u76e4\u7b97\u8981\u5982\u4f55\u76e1\u5feb\u56de\u5831\u5c0d\u65b9\u3002<\/p>\n  <p>\u6709\u6642\u5019\uff0c\u9019\u4e0d\u53ea\u662f\u7368\u7acb\uff0c\u800c\u662f\u4e00\u7a2e\u4fdd\u8b77\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u65b9\u5f0f\uff1a<\/p>\n  <blockquote>\n  <p>\u53ea\u8981\u6211\u662f\u63d0\u4f9b\u5e6b\u52a9\u7684\u4eba\uff0c\u5c31\u4e0d\u9700\u8981\u5192\u96aa\u8b93\u5225\u4eba\u770b\u898b\u6211\u7684\u9700\u8981\uff0c\u4e5f\u4e0d\u5fc5\u9762\u5c0d\u53ef\u80fd\u88ab\u62d2\u7d55\u7684\u611f\u53d7\u3002<\/p>\n  <\/blockquote>\n  <p>\u9019\u500b\u65b9\u6cd5\u4ee5\u524d\u53ef\u80fd\u771f\u7684\u4fdd\u8b77\u904e\u4f60\u3002\u53ea\u662f\u5230\u4e86\u73fe\u5728\uff0c\u5b83\u4e5f\u53ef\u80fd\u8b93\u4f60\u5f88\u7d2f\u3002\u4f60\u5f88\u6703\u807d\u5225\u4eba\u8aaa\u8a71\uff0c\u537b\u5f88\u5c11\u8aaa\u51fa\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u611f\u53d7\uff1b\u4f60\u66ff\u5927\u5bb6\u89e3\u6c7a\u554f\u984c\uff0c\u537b\u4e0d\u77e5\u9053\u81ea\u5df1\u9700\u8981\u4ec0\u9ebc\u3002\u5225\u4eba\u4e5f\u8a31\u5f88\u80af\u5b9a\u4f60\u7684\u80fd\u529b\uff0c\u4f60\u5fc3\u88e1\u537b\u4ecd\u7136\u4e0d\u78ba\u5b9a\uff1a<\/p>\n  <blockquote>\n  <p>\u4f60\u95dc\u5fc3\u7684\u662f\u6211\uff0c\u9084\u662f\u6211\u80fd\u70ba\u4f60\u505a\u7684\u4e8b\uff1f<\/p>\n  <\/blockquote>\n  <p>\u4f9d\u9644\u7406\u8ad6\u5e6b\u52a9\u6211\u5011\u7406\u89e3\uff0c\u6211\u5011\u6703\u5f9e\u904e\u53bb\u7684\u95dc\u4fc2\u4e2d\u5b78\u6703\u600e\u9ebc\u770b\u5f85\u81ea\u5df1\uff0c\u4e5f\u6703\u958b\u59cb\u9810\u671f\u5225\u4eba\u5c07\u5982\u4f55\u5c0d\u5f85\u6211\u5011\u3002\u5982\u679c\u904e\u53bb\u5e38\u5e38\u9700\u8981\u9760\u8868\u73fe\u4f86\u63db\u53d6\u5b89\u5fc3\uff0c\u9577\u5927\u5f8c\u81ea\u7136\u4e5f\u53ef\u80fd\u5f88\u96e3\u76f8\u4fe1\uff1a\u5373\u4f7f\u6211\u6c92\u6709\u505a\u4ec0\u9ebc\uff0c\u6211\u4ecd\u7136\u503c\u5f97\u88ab\u95dc\u5fc3\u3002<\/p>\n  <\/section>\n  <section id=\"\u8b93\u5225\u4eba\u770b\u898b\u9700\u8981\u662f\u771f\u5be6\u9023\u7d50\u7684\u4e00\u90e8\u5206\" class=\"level2\">\n  <h2>\u8b93\u5225\u4eba\u770b\u898b\u9700\u8981\uff0c\u662f\u771f\u5be6\u9023\u7d50\u7684\u4e00\u90e8\u5206<\/h2>\n  <p>Bren\u00e9 Brown\n  \u8ac7\u5230\uff0c\u9858\u610f\u8b93\u5225\u4eba\u770b\u898b\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u4e0d\u78ba\u5b9a\u3001\u9700\u8981\u548c\u4e0d\u5b8c\u7f8e\uff0c\u4e0d\u662f\u8edf\u5f31\uff0c\u800c\u662f\u9700\u8981\u52c7\u6c23\u3002<\/p>\n  <p>\u5c0d\u7fd2\u6163\u7167\u9867\u5225\u4eba\u7684\u4eba\u4f86\u8aaa\uff0c\u771f\u6b63\u56f0\u96e3\u7684\u53ef\u80fd\u4e0d\u662f\u591a\u505a\u4e00\u4ef6\u4e8b\uff0c\u800c\u662f\u8aaa\u51fa\uff1a<\/p>\n  <ul>\n  <li>\u300c\u6211\u73fe\u5728\u5176\u5be6\u4e0d\u77e5\u9053\u8a72\u600e\u9ebc\u8fa6\u3002\u300d<\/li>\n  <li>\u300c\u6211\u4eca\u5929\u771f\u7684\u6709\u9ede\u7d2f\u3002\u300d<\/li>\n  <li>\u300c\u4f60\u53ef\u4ee5\u807d\u6211\u8aaa\u5e7e\u5206\u9418\u55ce\uff1f\u300d<\/li>\n  <li>\u300c\u9019\u4ef6\u4e8b\u6211\u9700\u8981\u4e00\u9ede\u5e6b\u5fd9\u3002\u300d<\/li>\n  <\/ul>\n  <p>\u7576\u6211\u5011\u8b93\u503c\u5f97\u4fe1\u4efb\u7684\u4eba\u770b\u898b\u9019\u4e9b\u90e8\u5206\uff0c\u5c0d\u65b9\u624d\u6709\u6a5f\u6703\u4e86\u89e3\u5b8c\u6574\u7684\u6211\u5011\uff0c\u800c\u4e0d\u53ea\u662f\u90a3\u500b\u80fd\u5e79\u3001\u6709\u7528\u7684\u6211\u5011\u3002<\/p>\n  <p>\u4e0d\u904e\uff0c\u9019\u4e0d\u8868\u793a\u6211\u5011\u61c9\u8a72\u5c0d\u6240\u6709\u4eba\u8aaa\u51fa\u6240\u6709\u611f\u53d7\u3002\u771f\u6b63\u7684\u4fe1\u4efb\u4e0d\u662f\u4e00\u6b21\u628a\u81ea\u5df1\u5b8c\u5168\u6253\u958b\uff0c\u800c\u662f\u5f9e\u5c0f\u5730\u65b9\u89c0\u5bdf\uff1a\u7576\u6211\u63d0\u51fa\u9700\u8981\u6642\uff0c\u5c0d\u65b9\u662f\u5426\u5c0a\u91cd\u6211\uff1f\u4ed6\u9858\u610f\u807d\uff0c\u9084\u662f\u7acb\u5373\u6279\u8a55\uff1f\u4ed6\u80fd\u5766\u767d\u8aaa\u660e\u81ea\u5df1\u80fd\u4e0d\u80fd\u5e6b\u5fd9\uff0c\u800c\u4e0d\u7f9e\u8fb1\u6216\u63a7\u5236\u6211\u55ce\uff1f<\/p>\n  <p>\u73fe\u5be6\u4e2d\uff0c\u91d1\u9322\u3001\u79fb\u6c11\u8eab\u5206\u3001\u8a9e\u8a00\u3001\u5065\u5eb7\u3001\u6027\u5225\u89d2\u8272\u6216\u5bb6\u5ead\u4e2d\u7684\u9577\u5e7c\u95dc\u4fc2\uff0c\u4e5f\u53ef\u80fd\u8b93\u6c42\u52a9\u8b8a\u5f97\u66f4\u56f0\u96e3\u3002\u9019\u4e0d\u53ea\u662f\u60f3\u6cd5\u7684\u554f\u984c\u3002\u5b89\u5168\u7684\u95dc\u4fc2\u4e0d\u662f\u5c0d\u65b9\u6bcf\u6b21\u90fd\u5fc5\u9808\u7b54\u61c9\uff0c\u800c\u662f\u5373\u4f7f\u4ed6\u7121\u6cd5\u5e6b\u5fd9\uff0c\u4f60\u7684\u9700\u8981\u4ecd\u7136\u53ef\u4ee5\u88ab\u5c0a\u91cd\u3002<\/p>\n  <\/section>\n  <section id=\"\u4e0b\u6b21\u60f3\u6c42\u52a9\u537b\u53c8\u5fcd\u4f4f\u6642\u53ef\u4ee5\u8a66\u8a66\u770b\" class=\"level2\">\n  <h2>\u4e0b\u6b21\u60f3\u6c42\u52a9\u537b\u53c8\u5fcd\u4f4f\u6642\uff0c\u53ef\u4ee5\u8a66\u8a66\u770b<\/h2>\n  <p>\u4f60\u4e0d\u9700\u8981\u4e00\u4e0b\u5b50\u5411\u5225\u4eba\u8aaa\u51fa\u6700\u6df1\u7684\u611f\u53d7\u3002\u53ef\u4ee5\u5f9e\u4e00\u500b\u4f4e\u98a8\u96aa\u7684\u5c0f\u5617\u8a66\u958b\u59cb\u3002<\/p>\n  <section id=\"\u4e00\u5148\u8fa8\u8a8d\u6211\u73fe\u5728\u9700\u8981\u4ec0\u9ebc\" class=\"level3\">\n  <h3>\u4e00\u3001\u5148\u8fa8\u8a8d\uff1a\u6211\u73fe\u5728\u9700\u8981\u4ec0\u9ebc\uff1f<\/h3>\n  <p>\u554f\u554f\u81ea\u5df1\uff1a\u73fe\u5728\u6709\u6c92\u6709\u4e00\u4ef6\u4e8b\uff0c\u5176\u5be6\u4e0d\u5fc5\u5b8c\u5168\u7531\u6211\u4e00\u500b\u4eba\u8655\u7406\uff1f\u6211\u9700\u8981\u7684\u662f\u5be6\u969b\u5e6b\u5fd9\u3001\u6709\u4eba\u807d\u6211\u8aaa\u8a71\uff0c\u9084\u662f\u53ea\u9700\u8981\u5c0d\u65b9\u966a\u6211\u4e00\u4e0b\uff1f<\/p>\n  <p>\u5982\u679c\u4e00\u958b\u59cb\u7b54\u4e0d\u51fa\u4f86\u4e5f\u6c92\u6709\u95dc\u4fc2\u3002\u6ce8\u610f\u5230\u300c\u6211\u53ef\u80fd\u9700\u8981\u652f\u6301\u300d\uff0c\u5df2\u7d93\u548c\u81ea\u52d5\u6490\u4e0b\u53bb\u4e0d\u4e00\u6a23\u4e86\u3002<\/p>\n  <\/section>\n  <section id=\"\u4e8c\u7559\u610f\u963b\u6b62\u4f60\u958b\u53e3\u7684\u90a3\u53e5\u8a71\" class=\"level3\">\n  <h3>\u4e8c\u3001\u7559\u610f\u963b\u6b62\u4f60\u958b\u53e3\u7684\u90a3\u53e5\u8a71<\/h3>\n  <p>\u7576\u4f60\u60f3\u5230\u6c42\u52a9\u6642\uff0c\u8166\u4e2d\u7b2c\u4e00\u53e5\u8a71\u662f\u4ec0\u9ebc\uff1f<\/p>\n  <ul>\n  <li>\u300c\u9019\u6a23\u6703\u9ebb\u7169\u4ed6\u3002\u300d<\/li>\n  <li>\u300c\u4ed6\u53ef\u80fd\u89ba\u5f97\u6211\u5f88\u6c92\u7528\u3002\u300d<\/li>\n  <li>\u300c\u9019\u9ebc\u5c0f\u7684\u4e8b\uff0c\u6211\u61c9\u8a72\u81ea\u5df1\u8655\u7406\u3002\u300d<\/li>\n  <li>\u300c\u5982\u679c\u4ed6\u62d2\u7d55\uff0c\u6211\u6703\u5f88\u96e3\u53d7\u3002\u300d<\/li>\n  <\/ul>\n  <p>\u4e5f\u7559\u610f\u8eab\u9ad4\u7684\u53cd\u61c9\uff0c\u4f8b\u5982\u7dca\u7e43\u3001\u5fc3\u8df3\u8b8a\u5feb\uff0c\u6216\u5f88\u60f3\u7acb\u523b\u653e\u68c4\u3002\u4f60\u4e0d\u9700\u8981\u6279\u8a55\u6216\u8aaa\u670d\u81ea\u5df1\uff0c\u53ea\u8981\u5148\u770b\u898b\uff1a\u539f\u4f86\u6c42\u52a9\u5c0d\u6211\u4f86\u8aaa\uff0c\u5e36\u8457\u9019\u4e9b\u64d4\u5fc3\u3002<\/p>\n  <\/section>\n  <section id=\"\u4e09\u5411\u8f03\u5b89\u5168\u7684\u4eba\u63d0\u51fa\u4e00\u500b\u5177\u9ad4\u7684\u5c0f\u9700\u8981\" class=\"level3\">\n  <h3>\u4e09\u3001\u5411\u8f03\u5b89\u5168\u7684\u4eba\u63d0\u51fa\u4e00\u500b\u5177\u9ad4\u7684\u5c0f\u9700\u8981<\/h3>\n  <p>\u4e0d\u8981\u5f9e\u6700\u96e3\u4fe1\u4efb\u7684\u4eba\u958b\u59cb\u3002\u53ef\u4ee5\u9078\u4e00\u500b\u5e73\u5e38\u8f03\u5c0a\u91cd\u4f60\u7684\u4eba\uff0c\u63d0\u51fa\u4e00\u500b\u5c0d\u65b9\u5bb9\u6613\u7406\u89e3\u3001\u4e5f\u53ef\u4ee5\u8aa0\u5be6\u56de\u7b54\u7684\u5c0f\u9700\u8981\uff0c\u4f8b\u5982\uff1a<\/p>\n  <blockquote>\n  <p>\u300c\u4f60\u73fe\u5728\u65b9\u4fbf\u807d\u6211\u8aaa\u5341\u5206\u9418\u55ce\uff1f\u300d<\/p>\n  <\/blockquote>\n  <blockquote>\n  <p>\u300c\u4f60\u53ef\u4ee5\u5e6b\u6211\u4e00\u8d77\u770b\u4e00\u4e0b\u9019\u4ef6\u4e8b\u55ce\uff1f\u300d<\/p>\n  <\/blockquote>\n  <p>\u7136\u5f8c\u89c0\u5bdf\uff1a\u5c0d\u65b9\u5be6\u969b\u600e\u9ebc\u56de\u61c9\uff1f\u4f60\u53c8\u6709\u4ec0\u9ebc\u611f\u53d7\uff1f\u7576\u5c0d\u65b9\u7b54\u61c9\u5f8c\uff0c\u4f60\u662f\u5426\u4ecd\u60f3\u8aaa\u300c\u4e0d\u7528\u4e86\u300d\uff0c\u6216\u7acb\u523b\u60f3\u8457\u5982\u4f55\u56de\u5831\uff1f<\/p>\n  <p>\u9019\u4e0d\u4ee3\u8868\u7df4\u7fd2\u5931\u6557\u3002\u5b83\u8b93\u4f60\u770b\u898b\uff0c\u56f0\u96e3\u53ef\u80fd\u4e0d\u53ea\u5728\u65bc\u300c\u4e0d\u77e5\u9053\u600e\u9ebc\u6c42\u52a9\u300d\uff0c\u4e5f\u5728\u65bc\u4f60\u662f\u5426\u80fd\u5bb9\u8a31\u81ea\u5df1\u63a5\u53d7\u5225\u4eba\u7684\u95dc\u5fc3\u3002<\/p>\n  <\/section>\n  <\/section>\n  <section id=\"\u5fc3\u7406\u8aee\u8a62\u672c\u8eab\u4e5f\u662f\u4e00\u7a2e\u7df4\u7fd2\" class=\"level2\">\n  <h2>\u5fc3\u7406\u8aee\u8a62\u672c\u8eab\uff0c\u4e5f\u662f\u4e00\u7a2e\u7df4\u7fd2<\/h2>\n  <p>\u5c0d\u4e00\u500b\u7e3d\u662f\u5e6b\u52a9\u5225\u4eba\u3001\u537b\u5f88\u96e3\u958b\u53e3\u6c42\u52a9\u7684\u4eba\u4f86\u8aaa\uff0c\u9810\u7d04\u5fc3\u7406\u8aee\u8a62\u672c\u8eab\u53ef\u80fd\u5df2\u7d93\u662f\u4e00\u500b\u65b0\u7684\u5617\u8a66\u3002\u4f60\u6b63\u5728\u7df4\u7fd2\u627f\u8a8d\uff1a\u300c\u6211\u4e5f\u6709\u611f\u53d7\uff0c\u6211\u4e5f\u6709\u9700\u8981\uff0c\u6211\u4e0d\u5fc5\u6bcf\u4e00\u4ef6\u4e8b\u90fd\u81ea\u5df1\u8655\u7406\u3002\u300d<\/p>\n  <p>\u548c\u6211\u4e00\u8d77\u5de5\u4f5c\u6642\uff0c\u6211\u5011\u53ef\u4ee5\u5f9e\u6700\u8fd1\u4e00\u6b21\u4f60\u660e\u660e\u9700\u8981\u652f\u6301\u3001\u6700\u5f8c\u537b\u544a\u8a34\u81ea\u5df1\u300c\u7b97\u4e86\uff0c\u6211\u81ea\u5df1\u4f86\u300d\u7684\u7d93\u9a57\u958b\u59cb\u3002\u6211\u5011\u6703\u6162\u6162\u770b\u770b\uff1a\u4f60\u7576\u6642\u6709\u4ec0\u9ebc\u611f\u53d7\uff1f\u8eab\u9ad4\u51fa\u73fe\u4e86\u4ec0\u9ebc\u53cd\u61c9\uff1f\u4f60\u64d4\u5fc3\u9ebb\u7169\u8ab0\u3001\u5931\u53bb\u4ec0\u9ebc\uff0c\u6216\u88ab\u600e\u6a23\u770b\u5f85\uff1f<\/p>\n  <p>\u4f60\u4e0d\u9700\u8981\u5728\u8aee\u8a62\u4e2d\u8868\u73fe\u5f97\u5f88\u597d\uff0c\u4e5f\u4e0d\u9700\u8981\u99ac\u4e0a\u5b78\u6703\u6c42\u52a9\u3002\u6211\u6703\u966a\u4f60\u7406\u89e3\uff0c\u9019\u4e9b\u53cd\u61c9\u904e\u53bb\u5982\u4f55\u4fdd\u8b77\u4f60\uff0c\u53c8\u70ba\u4ec0\u9ebc\u73fe\u5728\u8b93\u4f60\u611f\u5230\u8f9b\u82e6\u3002\u7576\u4f60\u6bd4\u8f03\u80fd\u770b\u898b\u300c\u6211\u9700\u8981\u652f\u6301\u300d\u548c\u300c\u6211\u5bb3\u6015\u6210\u70ba\u8ca0\u64d4\u300d\u540c\u6642\u5b58\u5728\uff0c\u6211\u5011\u53ef\u4ee5\u4f9d\u7167\u4f60\u7684\u6b65\u8abf\uff0c\u7df4\u7fd2\u8aaa\u51fa\u4e00\u500b\u8f03\u5c0f\u7684\u9700\u8981\u3001\u63a5\u53d7\u4e00\u6b21\u5e6b\u5fd9\uff0c\u4e26\u5206\u8fa8\u54ea\u4e9b\u95dc\u4fc2\u503c\u5f97\u6162\u6162\u5efa\u7acb\u4fe1\u4efb\u3002<\/p>\n  <p>\u8aee\u8a62\u672c\u8eab\u4e5f\u53ef\u4ee5\u662f\u4e00\u6bb5\u4e0d\u540c\u7684\u95dc\u4fc2\u7d93\u9a57\u3002\u4f60\u53ef\u4ee5\u6709\u4e0d\u77e5\u9053\u7684\u6642\u5019\uff0c\u53ef\u4ee5\u6709\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u611f\u53d7\uff0c\u4e5f\u4e0d\u9700\u8981\u5148\u7167\u9867\u6cbb\u7642\u5e2b\u6216\u8b49\u660e\u81ea\u5df1\u505a\u5f97\u5920\u597d\uff0c\u624d\u503c\u5f97\u88ab\u7406\u89e3\u3002<\/p>\n  <p>\u4fe1\u4efb\u4e0d\u662f\u8981\u6c42\u81ea\u5df1\u7acb\u523b\u5b8c\u5168\u655e\u958b\uff0c\u800c\u662f\u5728\u4e00\u6b21\u6b21\u4e92\u52d5\u4e2d\u89c0\u5bdf\uff1a\u7576\u6211\u8aaa\u51fa\u611f\u53d7\u3001\u627f\u8a8d\u4e0d\u77e5\u9053\uff0c\u6216\u8868\u9054\u4e0d\u540c\u610f\u898b\u6642\uff0c\u5c0d\u65b9\u662f\u5426\u4ecd\u7136\u5c0a\u91cd\u6211\uff0c\u9858\u610f\u8a66\u8457\u7406\u89e3\u6211\uff1f\u8aee\u8a62\u63d0\u4f9b\u7684\u662f\u4e00\u500b\u6709\u754c\u7dda\u7684\u7a7a\u9593\uff0c\u8b93\u4f60\u4f9d\u7167\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u6b65\u8abf\u5617\u8a66\u6c42\u52a9\u3001\u88ab\u770b\u898b\u548c\u5efa\u7acb\u4fe1\u4efb\u3002<\/p>\n  <\/section>\n  <section id=\"\u5728\u9019\u6bb5\u6642\u9593\u88e1\u8b93\u81ea\u5df1\u4e5f\u6709\u4f4d\u7f6e\" class=\"level2\">\n  <h2>\u5728\u9019\u6bb5\u6642\u9593\u88e1\uff0c\u8b93\u81ea\u5df1\u4e5f\u6709\u4f4d\u7f6e<\/h2>\n  <p>\u5c0d\u7e3d\u662f\u5148\u7167\u9867\u5225\u4eba\u7684\u4eba\u4f86\u8aaa\uff0c\u70ba\u81ea\u5df1\u4fdd\u7559\u4e00\u6bb5\u5fc3\u7406\u8aee\u8a62\u6642\u9593\uff0c\u672c\u8eab\u4e5f\u662f\u4e00\u7a2e\u81ea\u6211\u7167\u9867\u3002<\/p>\n  <p>\u5728\u6211\u5011\u4e00\u8d77\u5de5\u4f5c\u7684\u6642\u9593\u88e1\uff0c\u4f60\u4e0d\u9700\u8981\u5148\u8655\u7406\u5bb6\u4eba\u7684\u9700\u8981\u3001\u5b89\u64ab\u5225\u4eba\u7684\u60c5\u7dd2\uff0c\u6216\u8b49\u660e\u81ea\u5df1\u4ecd\u7136\u80fd\u5920\u6490\u4e0b\u53bb\u3002\u9019\u6bb5\u6642\u9593\u53ef\u4ee5\u5148\u56de\u5230\u4f60\u8eab\u4e0a\uff1a\u6700\u8fd1\u4ec0\u9ebc\u4e8b\u60c5\u8b93\u4f60\u5f88\u7d2f\uff1f\u4f60\u4e00\u76f4\u58d3\u4e0b\u4e86\u54ea\u4e9b\u611f\u53d7\uff1f\u4f60\u771f\u6b63\u9700\u8981\u7684\u662f\u4ec0\u9ebc\uff1f\u4f60\u5e0c\u671b\u751f\u6d3b\u6216\u95dc\u4fc2\u6709\u4ec0\u9ebc\u4e0d\u540c\uff1f<\/p>\n  <p>\u628a\u81ea\u5df1\u653e\u56de\u91cd\u8981\u7684\u4f4d\u7f6e\uff0c\u4e26\u4e0d\u4ee3\u8868\u5225\u4eba\u7684\u9700\u8981\u4e0d\u91cd\u8981\u3002\u5b83\u53ea\u662f\u63d0\u9192\u4f60\uff1a<strong>\u4f60\u7684\u611f\u53d7\u548c\u9700\u8981\uff0c\u4e5f\u61c9\u8a72\u88ab\u5305\u62ec\u5728\u95dc\u4fc2\u88e1\u3002<\/strong><\/p>\n  <blockquote>\n  <p>\u81ea\u6211\u7167\u9867\u4e0d\u53ea\u662f\u4f11\u606f\u6216\u505a\u8b93\u81ea\u5df1\u958b\u5fc3\u7684\u4e8b\uff0c\u4e5f\u5305\u62ec\u5bb9\u8a31\u81ea\u5df1\u9700\u8981\u5e6b\u52a9\uff0c\u4e26\u70ba\u9019\u4efd\u9700\u8981\u7559\u51fa\u6642\u9593\u3002<\/p>\n  <\/blockquote>\n  <p>\u5982\u679c\u4f60\u5df2\u7d93\u5f88\u6703\u7167\u9867\u5225\u4eba\uff0c\u537b\u60f3\u6162\u6162\u7df4\u7fd2\u8aaa\u51fa\u9700\u8981\u548c\u63a5\u53d7\u7167\u9867\uff0c\u53ef\u4ee5\u4e86\u89e3<a\n  href=\"https:\/\/www.lovehealscounselling.ca\/zh-hant\/self-esteem-and-confidence-building\/\">\u81ea\u5c0a\u8207\u81ea\u6211\u50f9\u503c\u5fc3\u7406\u8aee\u8a62<\/a>\uff0c\u6216<a\n  href=\"https:\/\/www.lovehealscounselling.ca\/zh-hant\/people-pleasing-boundaries-counselling\/\">\u8a0e\u597d\u578b\u6a21\u5f0f\u8207\u754c\u7dda\u5efa\u7acb\u5fc3\u7406\u8aee\u8a62<\/a>\u3002<\/p>\n  <p>\u4f60\u4e5f\u53ef\u4ee5<a href=\"https:\/\/lovehealscounsellingandconsulting.as.me\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">\u9810\u7d04\u514d\u8cbb 20\n  \u5206\u9418\u8aee\u8a62<\/a>\uff0c\u7c21\u55ae\u8aaa\u8aaa\u6700\u8fd1\u4e00\u6b21\u4f60\u660e\u660e\u9700\u8981\u5e6b\u52a9\u3001\u6700\u5f8c\u537b\u6c92\u6709\u958b\u53e3\u7684\u60c5\u6cc1\u3002\u6211\u5011\u53ef\u4ee5\u4e00\u8d77\u770b\u770b\uff0c\u9019\u662f\u5426\u662f\u4f60\u60f3\u5728\u8aee\u8a62\u4e2d\u7406\u89e3\u548c\u6539\u8b8a\u7684\u6a21\u5f0f\u3002<\/p>\n  <p>\u9810\u7d04\u4e00\u6b21\u8aee\u8a62\uff0c\u4e0d\u8868\u793a\u4f60\u7121\u6cd5\u8655\u7406\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u751f\u6d3b\u3002\u5b83\u53ef\u4ee5\u53ea\u662f\u4e00\u6b21\u5617\u8a66\uff1a\u5728\u9019\u6bb5\u6642\u9593\u88e1\uff0c\u4e0d\u518d\u628a\u81ea\u5df1\u6392\u5728\u6700\u5f8c\u3002\u4f60\u4e0d\u9700\u8981\u5148\u628a\u6240\u6709\u4e8b\u60c5\u60f3\u6e05\u695a\uff0c\u4e5f\u4e0d\u9700\u8981\u5148\u8b49\u660e\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u554f\u984c\u300c\u5920\u56b4\u91cd\u300d\uff0c\u624d\u503c\u5f97\u5f97\u5230\u652f\u6301\u3002<\/p>\n  <\/section>\n  <section id=\"\u5e38\u898b\u554f\u984c\" class=\"level2\">\n  <h2>\u5e38\u898b\u554f\u984c<\/h2>\n  <section id=\"\u4e0d\u6562\u5411\u5225\u4eba\u6c42\u52a9\u4ee3\u8868\u6211\u592a\u7368\u7acb\u55ce\" class=\"level3\">\n  <h3>\u4e0d\u6562\u5411\u5225\u4eba\u6c42\u52a9\uff0c\u4ee3\u8868\u6211\u592a\u7368\u7acb\u55ce\uff1f<\/h3>\n  <p>\u4e0d\u4e00\u5b9a\u3002\u7368\u7acb\u53ef\u4ee5\u662f\u4e00\u7a2e\u80fd\u529b\uff1b\u4f46\u5982\u679c\u4f60\u5373\u4f7f\u5df2\u7d93\u5f88\u7d2f\u3001\u53d7\u50b7\u6216\u7121\u6cd5\u8ca0\u8377\uff0c\u4ecd\u89ba\u5f97\u81ea\u5df1\u4e0d\u80fd\u9ebb\u7169\u4efb\u4f55\u4eba\uff0c\u9019\u53ef\u80fd\u4e0d\u53ea\u662f\u7368\u7acb\uff0c\u4e5f\u5305\u542b\u5c0d\u88ab\u62d2\u7d55\u3001\u6b20\u4eba\u60c5\u6216\u6210\u70ba\u8ca0\u64d4\u7684\u64d4\u5fc3\u3002<\/p>\n  <\/section>\n  <section id=\"\u70ba\u4ec0\u9ebc\u5225\u4eba\u9858\u610f\u5e6b\u5fd9\u6211\u9084\u662f\u89ba\u5f97\u4e0d\u81ea\u5728\" class=\"level3\">\n  <h3>\u70ba\u4ec0\u9ebc\u5225\u4eba\u9858\u610f\u5e6b\u5fd9\uff0c\u6211\u9084\u662f\u89ba\u5f97\u4e0d\u81ea\u5728\uff1f<\/h3>\n  <p>\u63a5\u53d7\u5e6b\u52a9\u6703\u8b93\u6211\u5011\u66ab\u6642\u5931\u53bb\u638c\u63a7\uff0c\u4e5f\u9700\u8981\u76f8\u4fe1\u5c0d\u65b9\u7684\u95dc\u5fc3\u4e0d\u662f\u4e00\u5834\u4ea4\u63db\u3002\u5982\u679c\u4f60\u904e\u53bb\u7fd2\u6163\u9760\u4ed8\u51fa\u7dad\u6301\u95dc\u4fc2\uff0c\u88ab\u7167\u9867\u53ef\u80fd\u6703\u5e36\u4f86\u5167\u759a\uff0c\u751a\u81f3\u8b93\u4f60\u7acb\u523b\u60f3\u56de\u5831\u3002\u9019\u4e9b\u53cd\u61c9\u53ef\u4ee5\u88ab\u7406\u89e3\uff0c\u4e5f\u53ef\u4ee5\u6162\u6162\u6539\u8b8a\u3002<\/p>\n  <\/section>\n  <section id=\"\u6211\u53ef\u4ee5\u600e\u9ebc\u7df4\u7fd2\u4e0d\u518d\u51e1\u4e8b\u81ea\u5df1\u6490\u8457\" class=\"level3\">\n  <h3>\u6211\u53ef\u4ee5\u600e\u9ebc\u7df4\u7fd2\u4e0d\u518d\u51e1\u4e8b\u81ea\u5df1\u6490\u8457\uff1f<\/h3>\n  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