Do not let others define who you are or create fear and limiting beliefs that prevent you from becoming who you truly are.
Jenny Hsu

Hi, I’m Jenny Hsuan Fang Hsu (she/her/hers), a Registered Clinical Counsellor (RCC) based in Vancouver.
I provide counselling in English and Mandarin, supporting individuals, partners, and families with relationship concerns, family stress, emotions, trauma responses, and self-exploration.
My work is culturally sensitive, LGBTQ+ affirming, trauma-informed, and attachment-based. I hope to create a space where you do not have to hide parts of yourself, over-explain your background, or have everything figured out before you begin.
I am a queer, Asian immigrant from Taiwan who moved to Canada when I was 13. Like many of the clients who come to see me, I understand how hard it can be to find your place between different cultures, family expectations, identity, and belonging.
In 2014, I was in a motorcycle accident, and that experience changed the direction of my life. Recovery was not only physical. It also brought emotional challenges, uncertainty, and a deeper understanding of the connection between the body, emotions, pain, and relationships.
This experience has shaped how I understand what it can feel like when life becomes overwhelming, or when life does not unfold the way you expected. It has also deepened my desire to support others with warmth, patience, and respect for each person’s pace.
Over time, these experiences have strengthened my belief that even in difficult moments, people can rebuild, adapt to change, and slowly find a steadier and more meaningful way forward.
I respectfully acknowledge that I live and work on the traditional, ancestral, and unceded territories of the xʷməθkʷəy̓əm (Musqueam), Sḵwx̱wú7mesh (Squamish), and səlilwətaɬ (Tsleil-Waututh) Nations.
I work with individuals, couples, and families navigating relationships, identity, and cultural or life pressures — especially those who feel stuck between expectations and their own needs.
For couples, I support partners who feel disconnected, stuck in the same patterns, or unsure how to move forward — including queer couples, mixed-race relationships, and Chinese-speaking partners.
For families, I specialize in working with Asian and immigrant families in both English and Mandarin, including families navigating cultural and generational differences, parent-child communication, LGBTQ+ family issues, and supporting a loved one through the coming out process.


You don’t need to have everything figured out. You don’t need to explain your background from the beginning.
My role is not only to listen, but also to help you see what may be hard to notice on your own. In our work together, I may gently offer perspective, reflect patterns as they show up in the moment, and help you make sense of the emotions, needs, or reactions underneath.
My hope is that our work gives you space to feel more clear, steady, and connected — while also helping you better understand yourself, your relationships, and the choices available to you.
In our sessions, we go beyond just talking about what’s happening on the surface. We take time to understand what’s underneath — so you can begin to make sense of your emotions, your patterns, and what you truly need.
We slow things down so you can understand what you’re feeling, instead of pushing it away or trying to figure it out on your own.
We explore the patterns that keep showing up in your relationships, so you can begin to see them more clearly and respond differently.
As things start to make sense, you may begin to feel more grounded, more like yourself, and more connected in your relationships.
My work is grounded in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), which focuses on helping you feel more secure, connected, and understood — both within yourself and in your relationships.

Featured Videos
These Chinese-language videos explore anxiety, withdrawal, conflict, and emotional distance — and how these reactions can become ways people try to protect themselves in relationships.
Recorded in Chinese · Helpful for understanding emotional reactions, protective patterns, and communication struggles in relationships
Recorded in Chinese · Helpful for people who want to understand relationship patterns, partner dynamics, and family communication
I have completed advanced training in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), and I use EFT as one of the core approaches in my work with individuals, partners, and families.
In relationships, one person may long for more reassurance, closeness, or answers; another may pull away, shut down, or create distance when things feel too much. These reactions are often not about someone being “the problem,” but about how each person tries to protect themselves.
When both people are protecting themselves in different ways, the relationship can become stuck in a painful cycle. EFT helps us slow this cycle down and understand what is really happening underneath the conflict.
Slow down conflict, understand emotional patterns, and rebuild connection and safety.
Understand your emotions, needs, relationship patterns, and ways of protecting yourself.
Create space for culture, attachment, communication struggles, and past hurts to be understood.
I provide culturally sensitive and LGBTQ+ affirming counselling in English and Mandarin, with in-person counselling in Vancouver and online counselling across BC.
Registered Clinical Counsellor (RCC), BC Association of Clinical Counsellors (#19416)
Master of Counselling, City University of Seattle
Post-degree Diploma in Psychosocial Rehabilitation, Douglas College
Bachelor of Arts in Psychology and Economics, University of Alberta
Emotionally Focused Individual Therapy (EFIT) Level Two
Robert Allan, Ph.D., LMFT, LPC, International Centre for Excellence in Emotionally Focused Therapy (ICEEFT)
Emotionally Focused Individual Therapy (EFIT) Level One
Dr. Sue Johnson, R. Psych & Dr. T Leanne Campbell R. Psych. International Centre for Excellence in Emotionally Focused Therapy (ICEEFT)
Cognitive Behaviour Therapy (CBT)
Psychosis and Associated Trauma,, Psychoscial Rehabilitation BC, New Westminster, BC.
Mental Health First Aid Canada Certificate
Mental Health Commission of Canada (MHFA)
QPR Gatekeeper Certificate
QPR Suicide Prevention Gatekeeper Program, QPR Institute
San’yas Indigenous Cultural Safety Training
The Chronic Disease Self-Management Program
The Chronic Disease Self-Management Program Six-Session Workshop, University of Victoria
Transforming Trauma with Emotionally Focused Individual Therapy (EFIT) PESI Canada
Emotionally Focused Therapy Core Skill 1, 2, 3, 4 modules
Jim Thomas L.M.F.T & James L. Hawkins II, PhD., LPC, Colorado Center for Emotionally Focused Therapy, International Centre for Excellence in Emotionally Focused Therapy
Emotionally Focused Therapy Externship
Robin Williams Blake, RP, Toronto Center for Emotionally Focused Therapy. International Centre for Excellence in Emotionally Focused Therapy
Families, Family Breakdown and the Law BC Association of Clinical Counsellors
Getting Grounded with the EFT Tango
Sharon Chatkupt Lee, PsyD, Arizona Center for Emotionally Focused Therapy, International Centre for Excellence in Emotionally Focused Therapy
Emotionally Focused Therapy Attachment Injury Resolution Model
Lorrie Brubacher, M.ED. LMFT Caroline Center for EFT
Emotionally Focused Family Therapy – Level One
Gail Palmer< MSW, RMFT and James L. Furrow, PhD, Toronto Center for Emotionally Focused Therapy
Families, Family Breakdown and the Law
Alyson Jones, MA RCC John-Paul E. Boyd, KC, AOCA MA LLB, BC Association of Clinical Counselor
If you’re interested in understanding how I work in more detail, you’re welcome to explore some of the approaches I draw from below.
Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) helps you understand the emotions and patterns that keep you feeling stuck, especially in your relationships.
Whether you’re working on your relationship with a partner, your family, or yourself, we create a space where you can slow down, make sense of what’s happening underneath, and begin to feel more secure and connected.
In our work together, we may focus on:
Life isn’t one-dimensional — and neither are the challenges you’re facing.
The way you feel is shaped by many things, including your physical health, your thoughts and emotions, and what’s happening in your life and relationships.
In our work together, we take time to look at the bigger picture — how these pieces connect, and how they may be affecting you right now.
Rather than focusing on just one part, we explore what’s underneath in a way that feels relevant, practical, and grounded in your real life.
I also incorporate a somatic (body-based) approach, which means we pay attention to how your body responds to stress, emotions, and past experiences.
Sometimes, what you’re feeling doesn’t just show up in your thoughts — it can show up as tension, fatigue, or a sense of being on edge.
Together, we slow things down and notice these signals, so you can feel more grounded, connected to yourself, and better able to respond to what’s happening.
CBT helps you notice how the way you think affects how you feel and what you do.
When certain thoughts keep repeating, they can make you feel stuck, overwhelmed, or hard on yourself.
Together, we look at those patterns and find ways to respond differently, so things start to feel more manageable.
I also draw from Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), which offers practical tools to help you manage intense emotions, stay grounded, and respond more intentionally in stressful moments.
Our relationships play a big role in how we see ourselves and connect with others.
Through an attachment-based lens, we explore how your earlier relationships may be shaping the way you relate to people now.
Together, we make sense of the patterns that show up — whether it’s feeling distant, misunderstood, or stuck in the same cycles — and begin to shift them in a way that feels more secure and connected.
This might include working through family wounds, navigating challenges in your relationships, or simply understanding yourself more clearly.
I work in a way that respects your identity, your experiences, and the context you live in.
This means we can openly talk about how things like culture, race, gender, sexuality, and family expectations may be shaping what you’re going through.
If you’ve experienced racism, sexism, homophobia, or other forms of oppression, we can take time to understand how that has impacted you — and what you need moving forward.
You don’t need to filter or explain yourself here.
This is a space where your experiences are taken seriously, and where you can begin to feel more supported, understood, and like yourself.
I work in a way that feels safe, respectful, and at a pace that works for you.
We don’t have to rush into anything before you’re ready.
We take time to understand what you’re feeling, without pushing or overwhelming you.
If you’ve been through difficult or painful experiences, we move gently — paying attention to what feels manageable, and what helps you feel more grounded.
You’re always in control of what you share and how we move forward.
The goal is to create a space where you can feel more steady, supported, and safe to explore what’s been hard.
I offer counselling in Vancouver and online across BC for individuals, partners, families, and ICBC clients.
I live and work on the traditional, ancestral, and unceded territories of the xwməθkwəy̓əm (Musqueam), Skwxwú7mesh (Squamish), and səlil̓ilw̓ətaʔɬ (Tsleil-Waututh) Nations.
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