REDISCOVER CONNECTION, HEAL TOGETHER,
AND BUILD A STRONGER BOND
Relationship & Marriage Counselling Vancouver – Jenny Hsuan Fang Hsu, M.C., R.C.C.

Are you feeling disconnected from your partner, stuck in recurring fights, or exhausted by the silence?

Relationships can be one of life’s most fulfilling experiences—yet they often come with challenges. Whether you’re navigating misunderstandings, trust issues, or emotional distance, these hurdles can strain even the strongest bonds.

Relationship / marriage counselling offers a safe space to address these difficulties, rebuild trust, and deepen emotional intimacy. It’s not just about resolving conflicts but also about fostering understanding, empathy, and connection. For relationships facing a breakup, counselling can offer a pathway to healing and closure, helping individuals process emotions and move forward with clarity.

What relationship / marriage counselling can help with:

  • Recurring arguments, withdrawal or growing emotional distance
  • Feeling misunderstood, ignored or emotionally rejected
  • Infidelity or betrayal and being unsure how to rebuild trust
  • One partner shuts down while the other pushes harder—creating more hurt
  • Cultural differences, family expectations or parenting stress
  • LGBTQ+ relationships or non-traditional partnerships needing safe, non-judgemental support
  • Premarital or pre-cohabitation counselling to clarify expectations, roles and boundaries
  • Major life transitions: new baby, relocation, immigration, career burnout, emotional disconnection
  • Unsure whether to repair the relationship, separate, or get clarity before making a decision

I’m here to create a compassionate, safe space where you can bring all of those feelings, however messy they may seem. Together, we’ll process everything that comes with the end of your relationship, from the heartbreak to the hidden emotional layers. Using Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy (EFCT), we’ll explore the emotional patterns that may have contributed to the relationship’s challenges and eventual ending. As an attachment-based therapist, I help you recognize any unhealthy relational patterns—whether it’s giving too much of yourself, feeling unheard, or repeating behaviors that don’t serve you.

We’ll work through these patterns with curiosity and self-compassion, helping you understand why they showed up and how they impacted your relationships.
Once we bring those patterns into the light, we can begin healing the emotional wounds they’ve left behind. With my support, you’ll start breaking these patterns and learning to nurture relationships built on respect, trust, and emotional honesty. This isn’t just about recovering from the breakup—it’s about rediscovering who you are and what you need in relationships moving forward.  
Through this healing process, we’ll work on reconnecting you with your emotions to allow you to feel more connected to yourself and others. I’m here to support you in finding your emotional strength again so that you feel empowered, confident, and ready to embrace future relationships with a more profound sense of self-worth.

Reignite Your Love
With Emotionally-Focused Couple Therapy

Relationships can sometimes feel like being caught in a frustrating loop — the same arguments, the same distance, and the same stuck feeling. You’re trying your best to connect, but somehow it’s just not working. Let me introduce you to The Badger and The Turtle, a story that might resonate with your experience.

The Badger and The Turtle

Picture this: The Badger longs for connection. When they feel a sense of distance, they lean in, push, and try to fix it. Meanwhile, the Turtle feels overwhelmed by all the intensity. To protect themselves, they pull back, retreating into their shell and shutting down. This reaction only makes the Badger push harder, which, in turn, makes the Turtle hide even deeper.
This back-and-forth is what we call an attachment cycle. One partner pursues connection while the other withdraws to feel safe. Beneath it all, both partners are longing for the same thing: to feel loved, valued, and understood.

Breaking the Cycle Together: How EFT Can Transform Your Relationship

Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) provides a way to step out of this cycle by exploring what’s happening beneath the surface. EFT helps you move beyond blame and frustration to understand:

Through EFT, we uncover the emotions and attachment needs beneath the surface, creating a foundation for genuine connection. Instead of feeling stuck in old patterns, you can discover new ways to relate—ways that feel secure, kind, and healing.

Building Lasting Emotional Bonds Made Simple with EFT

Here’s what couple and relationship counseling using EFT can help you achieve:
These patterns don’t have to define your relationship. Counseling offers a chance to rewrite your story and build a connection that feels more secure and fulfilling.

Embrace a New Bond
with Your Partner Through Couples Counseling

Counseling provides a safe, welcoming space where you and your partner can explore challenges together. Each session is tailored to your unique needs and focuses on fostering connection, understanding, and emotional security.

During our work together, we’ll:

Whether you’re addressing recent challenges, healing after a rupture, or simply wanting to deepen your connection, counseling helps you take meaningful steps toward a more secure relationship.

Support for Every Love Story: Celebrating Your Unique Relationship

Relationships are as unique as the people in them. I celebrate diversity and provide support for partners from all walks of life, including:
No matter your background or relationship structure, this is a space for you to feel supported, heard, and valued.

“Love is a constant process of tuning in, connecting, missing & misreading cues, disconnecting, repairing, & finding deeper connection. It is a dance of meeting & parting & finding each other again. Minute to minute and day to day.”

Dr. Sue Johnson

Find Healing and Strength for Healthier Relationships Ahead

Inclusive Relationship Support

Jenny offers a safe space for all couples, including LGBTQ+ and mixed-race partners, to explore identity and intimacy

Emotionally Focused Therapy

Specializing in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), Jenny helps couples understand underlying emotions to strengthen bonds and enhance trust.

Guidance Through Transitions

Jenny assists couples in navigating major life changes, such as marriage, parenthood, or cohabitation, fostering resilience and unity. 

Support for Breakups

Jenny provides compassionate counseling to help individuals process emotions, heal, and rediscover self-worth after a relationship ends.

Why choose Jenny Hsu, RCC for your relationship or marriage counselling?

With over 4 years of dedicated experience supporting partners and relationships, I bring expert training, cultural awareness and flexible care that meets you where you are. I specialise in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) — a proven approach to building connection, healing patterns and deepening emotional bonds.

  • ✔️ Advanced training in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)
  • ✔️ In-person sessions in Vancouver & online counselling anywhere
  • ✔️ Flexible scheduling with evening & weekend availability
  • ✔️ Easy online booking with a free 20-minute consultation
  • ✔️ Sessions in English & Mandarin
  • ✔️ Deep cultural sensitivity to both Western and Asian contexts
  • ✔️ Queer-affirming, inclusive care for all partnerships
Book Your Free 20-Minute Consultation with Jenny

FAQ:

Can a relationship really recover after infidelity?
Yes — healing is possible. Rebuilding trust takes time, honesty, and support, but many couples do find their way back to safety and connection.

Is premarital counselling helpful even if we’re not having problems?
Absolutely. Many couples come in to strengthen communication, clarify expectations, and build a solid emotional foundation before marriage or moving in together.

Do we need to be married to come for couples counselling?
Not at all. I work with dating partners, engaged couples, married couples, LGBTQ+ partners, and non-traditional relationships of all kinds.

We barely talk anymore. Is it too late?
Silence is often a sign of exhaustion or emotional overwhelm — not hopelessness. Many couples reconnect even after long periods of distance.

What if we’re unsure whether we want to stay together?
That’s okay. Counselling can give you space to slow down, understand what’s happening, and explore your options without pressure.

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